Most women are accomplished multi-taskers. However, ruminating about grocery lists or an upcoming staff meeting while engaging in sexual activity could certainly prove to be detrimental. For a rewarding sexual experience, such moments deserve to be the sole focus of attention and concentration.Mindfulness is rooted in Eastern spiritual traditions, and is described as the means by which dispersed thoughts are gathered so that the mind can experience "living in the moment". Mindfulness is commonly used in stress reduction programs and has been shown to have many positive effects on physical, emotional and sexual health.
In general, mindfulness therapy teaches a woman to focus on the present moment without judging the experience or clouding it with feelings. Women with sexual impairment often report difficulties with intercourse because of intrusive, nonsexual thoughts and concerns about sexual performance, body image and partner-related issues. A study published in 2000 showed that a mindfulness practice can help women overcome such distractions and focus on their sexual response (Dove, 2000). Another study demonstrated improved sexual desire, arousal and satisfaction and decreased negative mood in ten women who practiced mindfulness meditation for five years (Brotto, 2008). Mindfulness has also been correlated with greater marital satisfaction (Burpee, 2005).
You can find mindfulness meditation CDs by Jon Kabat-Zinn at http://www.mindfulnesscds.com/index.html
References:
1. Dove NL, Widerman MW. Cognitive distraction and women's sexual functioning. J Sex Marital Ther. 2000;26(1):67-78
2. Brotto LA, et al. A mindfulness-based group psychoeducational intervention targeting sexual arousal disorder in women. J Sex Med. 2008;5(7):1646-59.
3. Burpee LC, Langer EJ. Mindfulness and marital satisfaction. J Adult Dev. 2005;12(1):43-51.
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